Wank Buddy Advice – I want to stroke it for him

Submitted by Angelo in New York, NY

“Me and a buddy have been jacking it together for a couple of years now. It’s been great and I always love it. The thing is I really want to jack him off, and I don’t know if he would be into that. I guess I’m more bi than he is, because ever since we started way back then I’ve been more and more into seeing guys jacking on video. My favorite kind of porn is guys jacking each other, and I really want to try that with my buddy. I don’t know what he’s into other than the porn we watch together when we’re jerking it, but I get the feeling he would think it’s going too far to stroke each other. But man, he has a great cock, real heavy and thick, and every time I see it I just want to reach over and stroke the cum out of him. I don’t even care if he doesn’t want to jack me back.”

We’re not all the same when it comes to these things, and some guys are just not into touching. I’ve jacked off with plenty of guys who didn’t want to go any further than beating their own meat. Some guys want to see another guys cock shoot cum, some don’t even look at my dick and just treat it like we’re hanging out, some love to feel my cock in their hand while I jack them off, and some really love sucking cock and even eating cum too.

It seems to me that you just want that connection with another dick, and although you’ve fixated on his because (presumably) he’s the only guy you’ve jacked off with, you would probably find it just as horny and exciting jacking off another guy. It might be time to try to find another guy who would be into swapping cocks in a jack off session.

One of the biggest problems is breaking this barrier and testing things out. It’s easier with a stranger because you don’t have to worry about it affecting your friendship, but with a buddy it could cause problems if you just suggested you give each other a hand job.

The only thing you can really do is try to see what he thinks about physical contact between you in one of these sessions. Maybe see if you can find a bisexual video you can watch together. I don’t know the kinds of porn you both watch in a jack off, but maybe you could do a little searching and see if there’s a bi threesome video where the guys just give each other a hand.

That could be a way into talking about it, maybe you could see his reaction and comment that “any hand is as good as another…”? You could just be jokey about it and ask him to stroke you, giving you the opportunity to back out if he rejects the idea instantly. Because you cannot read his mind, you really don’t know if he might be thinking exactly the same thing as you. Maybe he really wants to stroke your cock but he’s too worried about going there, just like you are?

Chances are, if you give him the opportunity, he wont consider it a joke and just reach over and grab your dick, giving you permission to grab his.

I would suggest having a think about how you might weave in a joke about him jacking you off and see if he takes the bait. If he doesn’t, then I would probably go out there and look for another cock buddy you know would be into mutual jacking. You don’t have to end the jerks with your buddy, and plenty of guys into it have more than one cock stroking friend they hang out with.

Whatever you do, don’t push it.

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