Wank Buddy Advice – To frott or not to frott

Submitted by Graham in Fort Collins, CO

“I have a college buddy I’ve been jacking off with for a couple of months. Although we have a great time jacking our cocks to porn and shooting cum everywhere (seriously, we both cum so hard when we’re jacking together) I saw some videos of guys rubbing their cocks together in a jack-off sleeve and I really want to try it with him. He’s more straight than I am I guess, so I don’t know how to suggest this to him without freaking him out. We don’t go further than sitting together stroking our dicks and cumming, so touching has been totally off the menu so far. Can you give me some advice about how you would get some frott action going with a wanking buddy?”

Every guy has his limits, some guys just get off shooting cum with a buddy and seeing another guys dick unloading next to them, other guys are willing to feel your cock in their hand for the same back, some guys try some sucking too and some love to share their cum by shooting on each others dicks… there are so many different little fetishes before you even get to full-on sex that it all depends on the individual you’re jacking off with.

I don’t think this is something you can just ask a cock buddy, this is something you just kind of fall into.

I would suggest introducing toys to your shared jack off sessions, see what happens when you pull out a fleshlight or something like that. If he wants to try it too, let him, then progress to an open-ended sleeve that you could both fit into. They can be hard to find, but there are some tunnels out there for guys into this where you both slide your cock in at opposite ends and rub the helmets together.

You might want to start watching some DP videos, and scenes of two cocks in one mouth, perhaps ask him if he’s ever experienced that and talk about how you would deal with that situation in a threesome. This is a good way to find out if he would be freaked out about his cock touching another guys dick.

As always, keep it chilled out and relaxed, joke about it, but you could make it clear that the thought of your cock touching another guys cock in a chicks mouth is a turn on and see what he says about that. If he agrees or just doesn’t appear to be turned off by it, then you have a chance to make your frott wish a reality.

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