Why is mutual masturbation so hot?

I had an email from one of the readers who wanted to remain anonymous, and he asked me why I think mutual masturbation with guys is so hot. He’s a straight guy in every other way, but he’s been wondering why he gets off so much on jerking his dick with other guys. Although he hasn’t stroked another guys cock yet, he enjoys watching a friend of his jerking off when they watch porn together and he’s thinking about maybe asking if the can jerk each other.

So, for you Mr Anonymous, here is what I think…

First of all, we all love our own cocks. We love playing with them and making them squirt. It seems pretty obvious that we get off on stroking the cum from our own balls and as it’s the first kind of sex most of us ever have it seems natural that we’d build a bit of a fetish for it. We all still do it even when we have easy access to someone else to share our dicks with, and plenty of guys who can stick their dicks into someone else whenever they like still jerk off daily.

Second, while wanking feels great, it also feels great to have someone else doing it for you. The main problem is that for most straight guys a chick just doesn’t know what she’s doing. Most guys will admit that the girls they’ve had jerking them off have been useless at it, they give up too quickly, they don’t know how much pressure or speed to use, they don’t know how to make you cum like you can. But another guy doing it knows exactly what it takes to get a guys cock throbbing and spurting a big load. So, it’s natural that guys can stroke cock better than any chick can.

Thirdly, if you jerk off with friends there is a natural bonding thing there too. Most of us have had great friends we’ve wanked with, and that makes the friendship stronger. Once you’ve seen your closest buddy shooting his cum from his cock you really don’t have any more boundaries between you, and once you’ve felt your friends shaft in your hand you’ve broken down all kinds of barriers.

Finally, I think it’s almost like the closest you can get to another guy, without it meaning more than it needs to. In a way, we can all imagine that living with another man would be far easier than living with a woman, but the whole sex issue is a difficult one. How many times have we seen straight guys in a “bromance”? It’s because it’s so easy, guys are simple to please, and jerking off together is like having a sexual relationship without it being too sexual and crossing a line. Does that make sense?

I think all of these things combined kind of explain why mutual masturbation between men is so common, pleasurable and fun. In my experience it’s easy once you’ve broken down that barrier for the first time, and the kind of pleasure and friendship you get from it is much better than most guys who don’t do it will ever understand.

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5 Replies to “Why is mutual masturbation so hot?”

  1. I agree with everythin that has been said, thinking and reading about mutual masturbation is a great turn-on to make me want to masturbate!!

  2. This post is right on. All dudes know what its like to shoot a rope of cum out of your dick. Nothing is more intimate than to share that moment with a bud. You get to see the most private of event, his balls releasing a load of cum, his cock pulsing as it lets loose. As a dude u know exactly how this feels and its the ultimate moment of bros bonding.

  3. Shared some great wanks with lots of guys over the last five years. The best thing in the world feeling another dudes dick.

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